Preferences in the art of cunnilingus

The partner will knee on the floor between her spread legs. You may place pillows under the knees and chest of the kneeing person. The woman can place a pillow under her buttocks to raise it to the level of the mouth.

Some couples like to lay down one in front of the other, placing their endings on the others hips. Others like to lay in form of straight angel in form of T, the lover will rest his head inside the woman’s hips. She may want to place her legs on a pillow.

The one that practices cunnilingus may lay with his face or back towards his woman. Of course there is the traditional position when the woman lies down on her back and spreads her legs and her partner rests between her legs.

The woman may place a pillow under her head to observe her partner. The man can rest his chest on a pillow if it is necessary. The technique varies from couple to couple. The sensibility of vulva and clitoris will determine the stimulation that she desires.

Some prefer a slow and delicate contact, where others prefer a fast and vigorous contact. The structure of sexual organs will determine all possibilities. A woman with the small vulva lips well developed would want them to be sucked on; the other one without much sensibility in this area wouldn’t want that.

If the woman has a big clitoris, the partner could caress it like a small penis. If the woman has a small clitoris or hidden the partner would be able only to circle around it. In case she already knows what she likes, listen to her instructions.

If she never had a cunnilingus experience then a slow start would be preferred. Even couples that feel great together would like to try new things. When you are experimenting try to move your tongue on vulva in every way possible.

There are many possibilities and there is no other way of doing it then learning from mistakes. There is a really important moment: be careful at the intensity and rhythm when the woman is close to an orgasm.

Nothing cools down more then a partner that interrupts the rhythm or stops influencing a certain zone when she is close to an orgasm. If both partners are completely relaxed you may not be able to open the big vulva lips with your hands; you will have to go deep inside vulva to find the smaller lips and clitoris with your lips and tongue.

If the woman’s legs are spread the vulva will open by itself. Because the tongue may be fatigued after some time, make sure you are using enough your lips. If you will use your tongue too much it will become fatigued after a while. It is better to place your mouth and lips closer to the vagina entrance.

Touch the vulva with your tongue without stretching it too much. The woman would like it if you insert your tongue in the vagina and lick her vaginal walls. You may not be able to go in with your tongue too far, but that is not a problem as the entrance of the vagina is the most sensitive.

Some women may prefer you to insert one or two fingers to stimulate their vaginal walls or the G Spot, while you lick her clitoris with your tongue. Some would like if you would insert one or two fingers in her anus and to massage it, don’t forget to put lubricant on them first.

You may use a dildo or a vibrator. There is the possibility that the woman would like to feel full when she is orally stimulated. A vibrator may make the woman cum if the oral satisfaction isn’t enough. Even though the vibrator by itself can lead to orgasm the combination of oral sex and vibrator can bring orgasms of high intensity.

Some couples enjoy the position 69 or Yin Yang. This practice implicates the satisfaction of both partners. Some couple enjoy only having such oral encounters when they can bring orgasms to each other at the same time. The others say that they can’t concentrate on their pleasure and that’s why they forget to stimulate their partner in 69 position.

Others say that they are so preoccupied with what they are doing that they can’t experience an orgasm. That’s why only experimenting you can find out the best positions for both of you.

Don’t forget to have some light in the room or light on some candles so the partners can see each other which will make the perceptions even stronger.